Monday, August 29, 2011

topic of the day: Haters and Bullies!!!!

this post is dedicated to the late Sophie Lancaster 1985-2007

from now on i am gonna make a topical blogging about issues that i have in my mind that i would like to share with you guys...
and the topic that i want to discuss about today is about haters and bullies!!
to be honest i have never been a victim of bullying of abuse myself but i do have a couple of haters on the internet..
what i dont get is that,they dont even know who i am, they judge me for my appearance and make their own false judgement on me...
just cuz i have piercings, wear cloths mostly black and listens to hardcore stuff, that doesnt mean that im a social active girl who goes to parties,gigs,smoke do drugs and all those other things they say i a matter of fact im not even close to what they say i am...
first of all im claustrophobic, which makes me uncomfortable in small places with tons of people in it,i never n dont smoke or do drugs&i wear black cuz its my favorite color besides sky blue...
i also heard they talk about me about my imperfections,like my weight,my skins tone,and some other stuff...
im a human,im not perfect..yes i am fat,i do have pimples cuz im human,it sure you're are not so perfect yourself? so dont talk about people if you dot even know them and if you're not so perfect after just makes u a very sad person, and whats more pathetic is that you dont even know who i am,u just knows me from my pics n videos in the internet and you have no guts to say it to my face but instead you gossip about it to my friends...loser much??
even though i had never been bullied,my friends had,and one of them is Qiqi..
she had been bullied by her work-mate at the place she was working,they bullied her till it come to a point where she nearly cant stand it and burst into tears when she talks to me about it...
they attacked her harshly,by saying mean things to her,and make fun of her and stuff like that...
i really dont understand how could people do that to a person,i mean im sure they wouldn't that to happened to them so why do it to other people?? to make yourself feel good?? because its fun to torture people?? i will never know,but i hope one day those people will come to their senses and repent...and wont to it to people anymore

actually i dont want to talk about myself or Qiqi, i want to talk about what happened to a girl name Sophie Lancaster about 4 years ago..
if you dont know what happend to her dont worry i'll tell you but brace yourself, cuz her story might shock you....
okay,The Murder of Sophie Lancaster was a murder case in the United Kingdom in 2007. The victim, along with her boyfriend, Robert Maltby, was attacked by a number of males in their mid-teens while walking through Stubbylee Park in Bacup, Rossendale in Lancashire. As a result of her severe head injuries she went into a coma, never regained consciousness, and died thirteen days later. The police said the attack may have been provoked by the couple's wearing gothic fashion and being members of the goth subculture.therefore this was a hate crime.Five teenage boys were later arrested and charged with murder. Two of them were convicted of murder and sentenced to life-imprisonment. The other three were convicted and jailed for grievous bodily harm.her injuries was so gruesome that doctors had a hard time identifying her sex orientation..
here's her picture before it happened:
here's a picture while she was in a coma
if you still dont understand the story watch this clip:(an animations on what happened that night)

shocking right? someone was beaten to death simply because she dresses differently..
where was their moral value?? why are they being so prejudicial about the difference of her n her boyfriend's personality?? and most importantly she is a woman, it was not a fair fight...and im happy that they got arrested and i hope they rot in jail..they killed someone unreasonably and i hope they realized what they have done and let this be a lesson to anyone out there that is a bully,that sometimes bullying might seemed fun to you but it will result to a bad tragedy... realize it before its too late and before something like this happens again..
i really dont understand why people hate and bully people for being different, like being gay/lesbians,scene/emo/goth/hipster,their race or what ever.. why should you judge people from the outside?? or their sex orientations?? they are still humans with feeling like you are...and they could me the most awesome person ever but you wouldn't give a chance to get to know them because you are so caught up in status quote,your homophobia... treat people the way you wanna treated..stop hating and bullying..let what happened to sophie be a lesson to all of us... spread love not hate..!!
i am against hate and bulling and so should you!!

1 comment:

  1. agree with you andi ! never judge people from their look >.<